A Valentine’s Day Lesson of Perspective

Prior to volunteering with hospice, I had a limited view of what it meant to be “on hospice.” I believed that hospice was for patients who were restricted to the bed, limited in energy, and nearing their final hours. From my first visits with my patient, Wilma, I realized that hospice care is more than … Continue reading “A Valentine’s Day Lesson of Perspective”


The Importance of Communication

During my time in the pre-med Hospice program facilitated by Holisticare Hospice and the Athena Institute, I have developed a great passion for proper communication with patients, specifically those in dire need while receiving end-of-life care. This process has shown me the importance of treating end-of-life care as something critical for a proper conclusion to … Continue reading “The Importance of Communication”


Hospice Care: The Beauty in End-of-Life Care

Serving as a hospice caretaker has been a very fulfilling yet complex journey for me. I initially joined Ascend Hospice because I wanted to learn how to communicate with my grandfather, who is slowly succumbing to Alzheimer’s. Not only have I built a deeper relationship with grandfather because of the skills I have learned through … Continue reading “Hospice Care: The Beauty in End-of-Life Care”


Dementia: What Compassionate Care Can Achieve That Prescriptions Cannot.

I have spent the majority of my hospice volunteering experience with a woman in her late 90s with dementia, who I will refer to as Judy. Judy reminds me of my grandmother: They’re both sociable, talkative, strong-willed women who have been changed by dementia. While dementia may seem less harmful than other conditions, in that … Continue reading “Dementia: What Compassionate Care Can Achieve That Prescriptions Cannot.”


Nature’s Course

Through this volunteer experience, I had less experience with hospice patients and more with palliative care patients. As I began looking into this opportunity at the VA, there was no distinction between hospice and palliative care. I fell victim of the social stigma associated with these branches of medicine, seeing them as simply a place … Continue reading “Nature’s Course”


How Hospice Helped Me Cope With My Sick Mother

This year has completely changed my outlook on medicine and the role a doctor should play in healthcare. I had a unique experience in that I was on both sides of the medical world: both as a hospice volunteer and as a family member of a sick patient. Shortly after I had signed up for … Continue reading “How Hospice Helped Me Cope With My Sick Mother”


Unshackled by Fear

The car bumped up and down as its wheels rolled over cracks and holes in the asphalt below. Each bump was like a ticking clock counting down towards the inevitable meeting I would have with a person at the end of his life. I rehearsed in my head over and over how I would greet … Continue reading “Unshackled by Fear”


The Role of the Healer: Medicine’s Lost Art

My time working in hospice care has been filled with important experiences, but I feel as though the relationships I developed with the patients were the most valuable. While there are a number of relationships I could speak about, I feel as though the experiences I had with a particularly challenging patient were the most … Continue reading “The Role of the Healer: Medicine’s Lost Art”


Learning to Deal with Loss

My time volunteering with Ascend Hospice has given me an invaluable opportunity to work on a more personal side of medicine that is difficult for premedical students to obtain. As a hospice volunteer, I have been challenged to provide comfort to patients in extremely vulnerable positions, and to understand how much grief the patient and … Continue reading “Learning to Deal with Loss”


Remembering Lessons

It’s been almost a year since I received a message containing an opportunity to volunteer in hospice care, and I took a few months of thinking before I decided that it would be good for me. One night, I came home so late that my dad had already woken up for the day. I could … Continue reading “Remembering Lessons”