When I heard about this volunteer position, I was excited at the prospect of finally getting patient care volunteer hours, since that’s an important aspect of my future application to medical school. I applied hoping to get those requirements, help some hospice patients, and learn something along the way, but I was not prepared for … Continue reading “Family In Need of Care”
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My Journey Through the Pitt Hospice Volunteering Program
On my first day volunteering with the Pitt Hospice program, I wasn’t expecting to be staring blankly at white walls as my “Hello!” echoed back to me. I was in the room with Ben, my first dementia patient, and within 30 minutes of awkward, fragmented conversation, my romanticized expectations and hopes for immediate connection and … Continue reading “My Journey Through the Pitt Hospice Volunteering Program”
The Importance of Fleeting Moments and Patient Interaction
When I was nearing the end of middle school, my grandfather was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. At first, I did not really comprehend what that meant. I knew symptoms of the disease and had heard of it before, but I did not foresee how it would affect me and my family. Watching my grandfather’s condition … Continue reading “The Importance of Fleeting Moments and Patient Interaction”
Moments
“I am sorry, we can talk more when you come back next.” “Have a wonderful break, I can’t wait to hear about your adventure.” “Next week, I’ll tell you what happened after that.” The above quotations came from three exceptional people that I had the pleasure of knowing for a brief time. Some I only … Continue reading “Moments”
Life is Ephemeral
I have never been particularly scared of death. To me, death is a natural thing that must happen to everyone, no matter the circumstances of their life. As a famous quote says: “The only things that are certain in life are change and death.” However, I still have never witnessed death in my life firsthand, … Continue reading “Life is Ephemeral”
Death as a Gift
Through my experience volunteering with the Hospice of the Piedmont, I have met many people and have listened to their life stories. Some interactions have been brief, lasting only hours. Others have been more consistent, giving me a deeper, more complete experience with caring for the terminally ill. One such interaction was with Jim and … Continue reading “Death as a Gift”
Understanding Death
My relationship with my hospice patient is meaningful because I know that sometimes I am the only one that tries to engage with her. I usually find her in a chair with the television on, even though she cannot see and can barely hear. Her caregivers do the tasks necessary to keep her alive, but … Continue reading “Understanding Death”
How My Hospice Volunteer Experience Influenced My Perspective on Death
During this past year, my experience as a hospice volunteer has allowed me to meet many patients and to reflect on my feelings about the process of death. While I was aware that I would be faced with death more than usual as a hospice volunteer, I did not expect it to affect me as … Continue reading “How My Hospice Volunteer Experience Influenced My Perspective on Death”
Six Months I’ll Always Remember
My hospice volunteer experience was completely different from my expectations, but still beautiful in some ways I expected and some ways that surprised me. With a partner, I began visiting a patient, Laura, in October. When we first me her, we were blown away by how healthy she appeared. Laura was walking around, dancing with … Continue reading “Six Months I’ll Always Remember”
Goodbyes
We live our lives dreading the topic of death, lest we provoke the Grim Reaper, Azrael, Yama, or whatever names we choose to personify death with. We understand that our time on earth is fleeting, and we are uncertain of when we will be unable to make the morning rush. I joined the hospice program … Continue reading “Goodbyes”